How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back If He Doesn’t Want You

How to Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back If He Doesn't Want You

When I hear the cry for help, “How to get my boyfriend back?”, I immediately realize that the conversation is going to be serious.

According to the esoteric and energy laws, it is impossible to affect the soul of another person. That’s why it is not recommended to use references to the specific individual when you form your wish. I perfectly understand that when you feel pain and want to get your loved one back, you can’t think about any laws. You want to get him back no matter what the methods are.

Besides the feelings of love, you want to get him back because of lowered self-esteem and wounded pride. You don’t understand how he can dump you. Most girls admitted that they realized at some moment that they want to get their boyfriend back because they want him to change his mind and acknowledge that he wasn’t right.

I know many examples when the man took the initiative to restore the relationship. However, it happened only because the girl refused the desire to get him back, and instead, she wanted to become happy and find a mutual love. When she really let go of her past relationship and started to enjoy her life, her man came back. Nevertheless, the situation can be different. For example, the girl is crazy about her man, but when she works on herself, she calms down, and after a few months, she opens her eyes and wonders about her obsession. Finally, she ends up meeting a new love.

How Do You Get Your Boyfriend Back? Psychologists’ Recommendations

  1. Give yourself some time to cry, suffer, and dream as much as you want. For example, for one week, or maximum for one month. Use this time as much as you can – write about your feelings, complain, discuss it with friends, or call to mind all your memories. However, after this period, you must pull yourself together because otherwise, you will waste all your life thinking about your past.
  2. There is one good way to overcome troubles: write down everything you can remember about your relationship in detail. You can spend a few days or even a few weeks. You just need to vent. Then start to write a letter to your boyfriend that you won’t send to him. Talk to him mentally and tell him about your feelings. Write at least three pages every day.
  3. It is important not only to write, but also to take the steps which will lead you to happiness, regardless the circumstances and other people. You also should improve your self-esteem.
  4. Work on your appearance – change your style, makeup, haircut, and add some bright colors into your life with the help of jewelry and beautiful dresses.
  5. Work on your inner world. Gradually raise the level of your energy, become more active, and be healthy. Of course, it is impossible to release the pain immediately. However, you should start with the smallest changes – try to replace your negative thoughts with constructive and positive ones. It is normal if you can’t be positive every day, and it is quite unnecessary. One point should be noted here – there is no need to lie to yourself. Every day you make a choice: to be sad at that specific moment, or not. If you make a conscious decision to be sad, you can do it. Just keep in mind to be aware of your feelings. There is a time for sadness, and there is a time when you should recognize the upcoming depression and fight negativity.
  6. Moreover, you should fully feel every bad situation in your life without any self-pity. This way, you will get rid of your pain. However, if you try to have fun when you want to cry, this is a direct way to diseases.

  7. Decide for yourself that in one year you will meet a lovely man with whom you will be together for the rest of your lives. It means that you shouldn’t get stuck in the current situation, but to just release it.
  8. You have a lot of things to do: develop a positive attitude towards life, improve your self-esteem, engage in new hobbies, meet new people, visit new places, and the man will appear in your life immediately. After all, if you don’t love yourself, then who will love you? The world reflects our thoughts. Understand that you are the only one who is responsible for your life. If you are not satisfied with something, you have to change it.

Plan Of Action: The Basis Of Relationship Restoration

  1. You have to identify your problem areas. Write an assessment of your qualities using the 5-point-scale rate:
    • Optimism and joy of life
    • Charm
    • Beauty
    • Femininity (not only external, but also internal)
    • Self-love
    • Self-confidence and communication skills.
  2. The areas which have minimum points require you to work on them. Try to improve yourself in these aspects.
  3. Think about your plans and dreams. To attract love and get married, you should learn to be happy here and now, regardless the circumstances. Your inner happiness will attract external happiness.


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